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Tuesday, June 28, 2011

Door To Door Sales In Appalachia

Working As A Door To Door Salesman
As one of my first blog postings discussed, I grew up in a country store in Knott County Kentucky.  I also began selling products door to door there when I was about ten years old.  I continued to sell all the way through high school and later worked as a door to door salesman for the Electrolux company in Logan, West Virginia for about five years in the late 1980's.  I loved the work, sometimes made wonderful money at it, and sometimes fought to keep from starving to death.  But I never lost the love of what old time salesmen call "stone cold door knocking".  There is no sense of accomplishment better than going out, knocking on the door of a complete stranger, introducing yourself and your product, and meeting a need for that stranger.  On more than one occasion, I became long time friends with people I met doing direct sales. 

Photo Of One Can of Cloverine Salve


Direct sales has been given a bad name at times by con artists, chiselers, cheats, and criminals.  But it is an honest and honorable profession.  Many people who have gone on to become internationally famous and admired have begun their careers as door to door salespeople including Zig Ziglar, Mary Kay Ash, and hundreds of others.  I worked with a diverse group of old fashioned door to door salespeople in my time. Most of them had been in the business for years and would not have considered any other means of earning a living.  At the time I began working for Electrolux in Logan, West Virginia, that office was filled with one of the finest groups of old time salesmen that has ever been assembled in America.  There was Vernon Clark, Jay Casey, Jimmy "J. J. Jones, Vernon Mullins, Dave Bennett, Bruce Bennett, Frank Jarvis, Ed Compton, Don Porter and me along with a rotating cast of short term, temporary people who came and went regularly.  Collectively that group of men had more than three hundred years of direct selling experience.  They had sold everything "from soup to nuts" as the old expression goes.  They had sold vacuum cleaners, cemetery plots, tomb stones, cookware, insurance, water softeners, Fuller Brushes, Avon, encyclopedias, Bibles, and a few things they found lying beside the road. They knew how to find a customer, get a sale, close the deal, and keep the relationship.  They were full of experience, wonderful stories, and survival skills that had sometimes been honed under fire in wartime.  They were also a very competitive crew.  Frank Jarvis actually sold a hundred machines in a month once and won a pickup truck.  Vernon Clark, Dave Bennett, Bruce Bennett, Ed Compton, and me all at one time or another were Electrolux branch managers.  If you got to a sale before one of those guys you had to be working.  Nearly every one of them were superb door knockers and strong closers.  But by the time I went to work with them, several of them had stopped working primarily as cold canvassers and were either working part time or using their years of experience to gain sales. 


Photo of an Electrolux Vacuum Cleaner With Power Nozzle

Jay Casey and Frank Jarvis were the only two I ever worked with directly.  Most of them preferred to work purely alone.  At the time I started, Frank Jarvis was listed as an assistant manager but really didn't like to train new people which was the main job of an assistant manager.  Every new sales person at Electrolux was assigned to an assistant manager who was supposed to work directly with you for up to thirteen weeks and show you the ropes, teach you how to make a sale, how to do the paperwork, and how to close strongly.  In short, they were supposed to give you a crash course in how not to starve to death. As payment, they received a percentage of each sale the trainee made during that first quarter which were known as overwrites.  I was initially assigned to an assistant manager who was known as a good salesman but really had a great number of weaknesses including  major problems with anger and dishonesty.  He never really liked to train anybody but liked to draw the overwrites. I had sold a lot of things door to door before I got to Electrolux but I had never sold vacuum cleaners. I had a problem at first in closing.  I just could not look somebody in the eye and ask them for five hundred or a thousand dollars.  I did not do well initially and the assistant manager did nothing to help me.  He actually cheated me out of the only sale I made while I was working with him by telling me and the customer that the price he negotiated was so low I would make no money on it and got me to let him put the contract in his name.

When I finally figured out what was going on, I asked Ed Compton, the branch manager to transfer me to another assistant manager.  He put me with Frank Jarvis who only worked with me for a week.  But that week made the whole difference.  I was off and running after that.  But the most interesting experience I had working with Frank did not involve selling at all.  I had knocked on a door in Kermit, West Virginia, down near the railroad tracks, and an old man let me in who had no intentions of buying anything.  But the old man was a signs following Holiness preacher as was Frank.  We went in the house and I took out my demonstrator machine and began trying to make the sale.  Frank and the old preacher began talking about religion.  About the time I got the machine put together, they began to speak in tongues and pray.  I finally realized there was no sale involved and put the machine up while the impromptu religious service wound down.  Frank eventually left Electrolux and sold water softeners for several years for a former Electrolux manager who had gone into business for himself. 

Ed Compton was also a preacher in the Church of God of Prophecy. He was a dynamo of a salesman.  He eventually left Electrolux to preach full time.  I also tend to believe he felt he was passed over for a Division Manager position.  Ed was a brother to Lucky D. Compton, a small coal operator who tried to become a NASCAR owner in the 1980's just before he died of a massive heart attack.  Ed was an excellent sales trainer, recruiter, and salesman.  The service manager in the Logan branch at that time was Ronald Hitchcock who was also a minister in the Church of God of Prophecy and pastored the church of that denomination in Logan.  For a time, Ron also went on the books as a salesman.  He never was very successful as a salesman but was a good service manager.  He was not nearly as dynamic a preacher as Ed or Frank either but he was well liked by his church members.  He only received a minimal salary for preaching and had to work at another job to make a living.

Jimmy "J. J." Jones had sold vacuum cleaners about forty years and was a severe diabetic and somewhat aged with multiple health problems. He was already drawing Social Security when I met him.  But he stayed on the payroll at Electrolux since his earnings never went over the wage limit Social Security allowed.  He usually never knocked on doors anymore and used his years of contacts to pick up sales.  But, in his prime, he had been known as a power house of a salesman also.  He was also a devoted checkers player who knew where every little store and gas station in West Virginia and Eastern Kentucky was located which kept a checker board on their premises. He would go to one of his checker playing spots and play checkers all day and pick up a few sales from people he met that way.  J. J. lived most of his life in Mount Gay, West Virginia, which is located at the Mouth of Mud Fork in Logan County.  Mud Fork is somewhat famous because Jesse Jackson spent a night in the home of one of his supporters there during his 1980 presidential campaign.  Mud Fork was still somewhat racist at that time and for years after Jesse Jackson spent the night there a sign hand painted on a railroad bridge spanning the road up the hollow proclaimed, "Welcome to Mud Fork, Home of The White Man."  Despite the sign, no mention was ever made by law enforcement of any serious threats having been made against Jackson.  To my knowledge, there was also no proof of any kind of KKK or other white supremacist allegiance in the area.  It is much more likely that the sign was simply teenage vandalism brought on by the unusual event of a presidential candidate coming to the area.  Years before the Jackson visit to Logan County, Robert Kennedy had also campaigned in front of the Stratton Hotel in downtown Logan.

Vernon Mullins had been a salesman for thirty or forty years and was also a preacher in the Church of Christ, the non-instrumental music branch.   He was a well known revivalist and also pastored a church for many years.  He would be invited to a revival nearly every week somewhere and primarily sold to people he met in church services.  He still managed to sell a good number of machines every month and his past customers were amazingly loyal to him. He always drove a car with an Electrolux sign on it and carried a few machines everywhere he went. He got a lot of sales from people who saw the sign in front of a church.  He also  had a reputation for being absolutely honest. 

Jay Casey was also deeply religious but did not preach.  He was a long time member of the Logan Baptist Temple.  Jay had sold cemetery plots for many years and also was a lifelong salesman for West Bend stainless steel cookware.  He deeply believed in stainless steel cookware and put his primary focus on that.  But he had a strong customer base and liked to work both sides of the street. He and I worked together quite often for several years and I liked him a great deal.  He was the only person I ever knew who could write a closing mathematical presentation upside down on a sheet of paper.  He would turn the paper toward the customer and start his closing figures writing flawlessly the whole time he talked.  Customers were so amazed by this ability that I tend to believe he got as many sales because of the trick as he did because of his sales pitches.  Jay was also a terribly weak Electrolux man when it came to the physical demonstration of the machine.  I had a very strong physical demonstration and the two of us worked well together. I would often go with Jay when he had vacuum cleaner demonstrations scheduled and do the demonstration while he did the sales pitch.  I tried selling some cookware but was never very good at it primarily because I was not interested.  Jay firmly believed in all the health claims made by West Bend and loved to sell cookware.  He had also sold cemetery plots for several different companies and had loved to sell the cemetery business. He never sold cemetery plots during the time I knew him.

Jay and I were working together doing an Electrolux demonstration in a double wide trailer for a woman on Pond Creek in Pike County Kentucky not far from Belfry when the space shuttle Challenger exploded shortly after launch.  We had just begun to demonstrate a vacuum cleaner and shampooer to the woman who had her television on when the special report about the disaster started.  We all three simply stopped, sat down and began to watch the story of the explosion.  We must have   watched the news reports for two hours until they finally made some official pronouncement that they were certain the shuttle had exploded and all crew members would be lost.  Finally, we got up, resumed the demonstration and Jay got the sale for over a thousand dollars. 


Challenger Crew Photo by NASA



Jay also got another sale of a vacuum cleaner and shampooer, known as a twin, in a trailer court in Boone County West Virginia just off Route 119 under very interesting circumstances.  The buyer was a divorced man and Jay had a "lead" for the sale which meant someone had contacted the office for a demonstration.  As we pulled in to the trailer park, we saw two other people going door to door.  Since I thought it would have been overkill to start knocking on doors at the same time as the other two I went in the trailer with Jay.  We had begun the demonstration when the other two people knocked on the door.  Jay, who was closest to the door, opened it and one of the people said, "Hello, we are two of Jehovah's Witnesses, may we come in."  Jay, as quick as a shot, said, "I'm Jay Casey, and me and this man is doing business.  You need to leave and come back later."  I was speechless and I am sure my mouth dropped open at seeing him throw two people out of a total stranger's home.  But Jay shut the door and the customer said, "I appreciate that. I can't stand Jehovah's Witnesses.  I'm glad you throwed them out."  Jay's actions had little or nothing to do with his opinion of Jehovah's Witnesses.  He would have done the same thing if they had been Baptists, Catholics, or Muslims.  They were standing between Jay and a sale.  Nothing more. Nothing less.  Jay got the sale and I never pass that trailer court without thinking about that day.  Jay had friends all over Eastern Kentucky and Southern West Virginia he had met selling either cookware, vacuum cleaners, or cemetery plots.  One of his closest friends, with whom he had sold cemetery plots, was a man named John Boone who claimed to be a direct descendant of Daniel Boone. I never saw John sell, since he was fully retired,  but he was legendary in the area and eventually died in a nursing home in South Williamson, Kentucky.  Jay and I used to meet Boone for lunch in one of the local fast food restaurants in South Williamson until he went into the nursing home. 


Painting of Daniel Boone leading settlers through Cumberland Gap

On another occasion, I was with Jay in Williamson and had been out late the night before.  Jay had a scheduled demonstration in an old coal camp house set high on the side of a hill in a small hollow at the east  end of Williamson.  I stayed in the car to try to get some sleep and Jay made the sale alone.  He had only carried a vacuum cleaner in the house but had been able to sell a twin.  He came out on the porch, which had plywood banisters about three feet high all the way around, and yelled for me to bring him a shampooer.  I got the machine and climbed up the high front steps.  To my surprise, about two feet from where Jay had been standing there was a marijuana plant in a flower pot which was nearly as high as the banisters.  After we got back in the car, I asked Jay if he thought the credit would be approved and he wanted to know why I thought they might have credit problems.  When I said they were drug users, Jay was shocked and had no idea the plant had been marijuana.  The sale was approved and the people eventually paid off the account.

Photo of Coal Camp Houses


Not far from that house, Jay had a long time business relationship with an elderly woman to whom he sold cookware and vacuum cleaner parts from time to time.  I knew from going there that several other people also lived in the house.  But Jay never said anything about anything unusual in the housing arrangement.  Later, at a time when Jay was sick or out of town, I took a service call at the house.  The elderly woman invited me in, gave me a cup of coffee, and asked me to sit at the kitchen table.  She began by saying, "I guess you want to know why all these men live here with me."  I said, "No ma'am, that's not any of my business."  But the woman insisted on going on with her informational session.  She said, "These two younger fellows are my sons.  And that man in the living room in there is my husband.  The other old man you saw going upstairs is my first husband.  He is the boy's daddy.  He's pretty sick and can't take care of himself so me and my husband let him live here and pay us rent.  He's the boys' daddy and I won't throw him out."  On several other occasions, I took service calls at the house and the woman always invited me in for coffee and I came to like her quite a lot.  I never had any opinion whatever about her living arrangements.  But she had obviously wanted to make sure I knew what was going on and who was who in the house.  It is also worthy of note that she was not the first or last person I ever knew who took in the parent of their children at or near the end of life in order to avoid having the former spouse die alone in a nursing home.

Jay and I worked together for several years and life on the sales circuit with him was always interesting.  He always drove an older Dodge station wagon which he had painted a bright lemon yellow.  All over eight or ten counties in Eastern Kentucky and Southern West Virginia people who knew Jay were alerted well in advance when he was in town because of the color of that car.  Other than Jim Ferrell, discussed in another posting, Jay was my best friend in Logan County. 

Vernon Clark had sold Electrolux most of his adult life and had been manager in both Logan and Clarksburg.  All salesmen are good talkers.  Most of them can tell a good joke or story if they so desire.  Vernon Clark loved to talk and tell stories.  He was garrulous, verbose, loquacious, and funny.  He had a thousand stories and I wish I remembered them all.  He was also a strong repairman and loved to make money on the side doing repairs in the field which was a violation of Electrolux policy.  He was also a master bojacker.  Very few people outside the direct sales business have ever heard the words bojack, bojacker, or bojacking.  A bojack is a used machine which the salesman owns and sells on the side to make extra money.  It may have been a trade in which the salesman didn't turn in to the company.  It might be a machine a salesman had bought at a flea market, yard sale, or auction.  A bojacker is a salesman who makes a large portion of his money selling bojacks.  Bojacking is the act of selling bojacks.  It was common for salesmen who bojacked to always be on the lookout for beat up, used, junk machines they could pick up and keep until they got a good trade in on a company sale.  Then you switched the junker for the good machine and sold it for yourself.  The money was all cash and a good bojack could pay your gas and lunch money for a month.  Vernon always had a few bojacks and would rather sell them than company machines any day.  Due to heavy bojacking and switching of worthless trade ins, about once a year the company would announce that they would not allow branch managers to accept trade ins which did not run or did not have cords.  But salesmen regularly stopped at roadside dumps, yard sales, and auctions to pick up old Hoovers.  The company always made bulk sales of trade ins to some small vacuum cleaner repair shop operator in Huntington or Charleston. They never made any money off the deal and good trade ins sold for no more than bad ones.  But the company did not want to lose the sales volume generated by bojacking. If decent Electrolux machines were ever traded and actually turned in by the salesman, the company sent them to the factory to be rebuilt and sold as rebuilt machines at a cheaper price than new.

Vernon told some of the best selling stories I have ever heard.  One I still use today in human interactions involved a sale Vernon had lost years before I ever met him.  He said he got into a house with a young couple who also had an old woman living in the house.  He said the old woman just sat in the corner and watched silently while he tried to make the sale.  He said he was certain that he had sold the young couple five minutes after he started.  But they wouldn't ever close the deal.  Finally, as he was about to give up and go out the door, the young couple said "We love the vacuum cleaner but we ain't got no job and no money.  Grandma draws a check and that's what we all live on.  If Grandma wants it, we can buy it."  Grandma, who had been ignored the whole time didn't buy it.  Vernon always said you have to know what is going on in the house and "don't ever forget Grandma."  Still today thirty years later, in group situations, I try to always remember Grandma. 

The other interesting point in that story is that Vernon Clark missed a sale.  He could usually smell money and had as high a closing percentage as any salesman I ever knew. He hated to miss a sale when he thought he should have gotten it.  Once I picked up a cash sale which Vernon had missed not far from Chapmanville.  I knocked on the door of a widow about seventy five and she let me in and told me she wanted to see a new Electrolux.  I did the demonstration and the woman very easily bought the machine.  She was very well dressed and quite attractive for her age.  As she was getting the trade in out of the closet, she said, "You know Vernon Clark was here and I didn't buy one from him.  I think he thought I was making a pass at him.  I want a man but I don't want one that old."  She also reached in the back of the closet and got a set of salesman's demonstrator steel balls and said "Vernon run off and left these.  I think I had him flustered."  Salesmen, including both Vernon and myself, often used a set of four large ball bearings nearly as big as tennis balls in a plastic tube that fitted over the end of a vacuum cleaner hose.  As a demonstration, you  spilled the heavy balls out in the floor and picked them up with the vacuum cleaner.  They would go click, click, click as they popped into the tube and you could actually hold the tube off the floor with the machine running and they would not fall out. It was a very impressive physical demonstration. 

She gave me the check and Vernon's steel balls and I took them in the office in my jacket pocket with the contract the next morning.  The regular salesmen usually came in for a morning meeting and to pick up supplies. There was always a lot of joking and ribbing going on in the meeting.  At that time, I was in the middle of a long run of good sales from a collection of widows and the salesmen had been kidding me about "leaning on the widder business". Widows often had insurance settlement money or new Social Security checks and were considered an easy market.   I pulled the check and contract out first and Vernon said "I guess you got you another widder yesterday didn't you?"  I answered, "Well, yes I did and it was one you missed out on Vernon."  I explained who she was and where she lived and Vernon said, "Yeh, I believe I remember who she is."  At that point, I took his steel balls out of my pocket and handed them to him and said, "You ought to remember her Vernon. You left your balls there."  Naturally, it broke up the meeting but Vernon took it well even after I added the part about "not wanting one his age."  But he never did admit to having been flustered in the woman's house.  A few years ago, I went to Vernon's house in Mitchell Heights, West Virginia, and took him to lunch in Logan at Shoney's.  He was in his late eighties and had quite a bit of damage from an earlier stroke and was not the same man.  But we still had a good lunch and talk. 

Vernon also told two of my favorite stories about his selling days before I ever met him.   He said that in the days of cloth demonstrator bags he was demonstrating an Electrolux Model G in a house where the woman had several small children running all over the house.   The house had wood floors and he said he was not having much luck getting a sale.  He said he kept adding jobs the machine would do such as cleaning the beds, couches, and chairs.  He said he even cleaned some of the curtains and suddenly noticed "a wad of flies just sitting in the corner in the floor."  He said he looked at the woman and said, "Ma'am, you can even catch flies with this machine."  He said as he was lowering the wand toward the flies the woman tried to stop him but it was too late.  As the wand came down over the flies, he heard a heavy sucking sound in the machine and shortly thereafter began to smell feces.  The flies had been sitting on a pile of feces where an untrained child had defecated in the corner.  He said he had to take the machine home, wash the cloth demonstrator bag, clean the whole machine, and "run smell good through that thing for two days to get the smell out."  Vernon loved to tell that story when the situation was right. 

Another of Vernon's favorite stories was about a time, several years before when he had been working with Dave Bennett during a drive month.  Drive months were in April and October and were usually a salesman's best months of the year.  The company always either introduced a new machine model or put the most recent model on sale.  Spring and fall cleaning also increased sales.  Salesmen worked long hours, carried every machine in their cars they could get their hands on and made every deal possible because prizes were also much better in drive months.  Vernon said he and Dave were working in some kind of old coupe that belonged to Dave  and had taken the back seat out to make more room for machines and even tied a few trade ins and bojacks on the trunk.  They got into a house and Dave was working hard to sell the deal.  Finally, the man said, "Buddy, I'd love to have that thing but I ain't got a penny.  The only thing I have is that pony out in the barn lot.  Will you trade me that vacuum cleaner for that pony?"  Vernon said he thought there was no way that deal would go down but Dave went to the barn to look at the pony and came back in the house with a bojack and traded it for  the pony.  Vernon said he was speechless and asked, "Dave, how are you going to get the pony home?"  Dave said "Vernon, we'll haul it in the back seat."  Vernon said what he had not realized was that Dave's daughter Renea was about twelve or thirteen years old and wanted Dave to buy her a pony.  Renea Bennet has contacted me after reading this post.  I had initially written it under the impression that Dave had traded for the pony for his son Bruce.  Renea Bennet sent me this message, still found in the comments section of this post, about the pony:

"First let me introduce myself my name is Renea Bennett. I am the daughter of Dave Bennett that was in your article and the sister of Bruce Bennett. Sadly they're gone now, but I do remember all the stories that they would tell particularly the one that you wrote about the pony, but it wasn't Bruce that that he wanted to buy the pony for, it was me. Bruce would have been about 20 years old, I was 13 and I never will forget getting that pony we named him Dusty. My dad made a curry comb that would fit onto the Electrolux. When Dusty would see that vacuum he would lay down in the yard so we could use the vacuum curry comb on him he loved it, he also loved malted milk balls. I have enjoyed reading this article so much and hope to hear from you also have a wonderful picture of all the men you mentioned at the Boca Raton, all in their white dinner jackets. I would like to share that with you thank you again for such an enjoyable read.
Renea Bennett"

The photo to which Renea Bennet refers pictures her father, Dave Bennet, and a group of other men in white dinner jackets at an Electrolux dinner in Boca Raton, Florida.  In the fifties and sixties, Electrolux held an annual weeklong sales award convention in Boca Raton.  Top achievers were given the trip, hotel, food, and convention as an annual prize.  I am unsure who the other men in the photo are due to the poor quality of cameras at the time.  If anyone recognizes anyone else in the photo, please send me a message and I will add their names.  It is wonderful to have Renea Bennet find the story, confirm the pony story, and achieve some pleasure from the post.  This is one of the best benefits of being a blogger. 

Photo Copyrighted By Renea Bennett and Used With Permission



The car belonged to Dave and Vernon had no say in the matter.  He said Dave went out and moved all the few remaining machines out of the back seat area and tied them on the trunk and led the pony to the car.  "Push him in Vernon," Dave said and led the pony in the passenger door with his head pointed out the driver's side window.  Vernon said he never even thought about anything until he got in the car and Dave drove off.  Vernon suddenly said, "Dave, what do we do if he needs to raise his tail?  You put his back end right behind my head."  Dave laughed and said, "Vernon, you didn't think I'd put it behind my head did you?"  Vernon said they had to stop for gas before they got back to Dave's house.  A sleepy boy about fifteen or sixteen was pumping the gas and didn't seem to notice anything unusual about the car.  But Vernon said as they drove away he heard the boy yell, "G.....n, that's a pony." 

In the days I worked with Vernon, he never went out selling with anyone except Don Porter, the salesman who had been a service man when he first started with Electrolux.  They usually travelled together and always sold high volume.  Don was an excellent bojacker and repairmen.  I am sure the two of them probably made more money from repairs and bojacking than they made from company sales.  But Vernon would always sell just enough machines to pay for his insurance each quarter. In those days, if you sold twenty seven machines a quarter you received free health insurance.  I am sure today that no direct salesman in America gets insurance and very few get any benefits at all.  Before I left Electrolux, they were cutting back on everything, franchising independent dealers, and moving toward having no sales force employed directly by the company.  Now they sell only major appliances through franchisees. 

After I finally learned how to close from Frank Jarvis, I was eventually made an assistant manager and actually enjoyed training new people.  Ed Compton usually assigned all new women sales people to me since I was not married or deeply religious like several of the others.  Most of the other salesmen would not train women because they did not want to be seen in public with a woman other than their wives.  My favorite trainee of all time was a young black woman named Damita Gilbert.  She was smart, pretty, soft spoken, and had a wonderful style about getting inside homes for demonstrations.  She was also a Jehovah's Witness which was her only serious drawback because it seriously restricted the amount of time she was willing to sell.  She would only sell three or four days a week and would evanglelize the rest of the week.  But when she was selling her only focus was on selling.  We made a great good cop, bad cop team. 

I was training Damita and a young white girl named Debbie Lambert in Naugatuck, West Virginia, the day she got her first sale.  We were in a trailer court and both girls got demonstrations at the same time.  I knew Damita had much better skills and went with Debbie to her trailer.  The young couple who lived there were poor as dirt and I knew shortly after I got in the trailer that there was no sale there.  But I stayed with her for about a half hour and finally said, "I better go check on Damita."  The trailer she was in had been set up about four feet off the ground because that area flooded often.  It had rough wooden steps and I just stood on the ground and knocked on the door.  The woman came to the door and I asked, "Have you seen a young woman around here?  I lost one a while ago."  Across the room, Damita was sitting in a chair with a contract on her lap and grinning from ear to ear. 

During the time I worked with her, I lost my voice once during January and February.  I could talk just enough to knock on a few doors and get inside.  But if I did a full sales pitch, I was totally speechless.  Damita and I worked together during that time with me doing the physical demonstrations and her doing the sales pitches.  She knew my technique so well that I could hit a point in the demonstration where I would ask selling questions and she would  hit them on cue when I stopped the machine.  We sold nearly as much that way together as we had been selling separately. 



Photo Of One Can Of Rosebud Salve



Once up above Matewan, West Virginia, in a little neighborhood called Meador, I got in a house late in the evening and had Damita and another girl with me.  The old woman had a son who was apparently mentally ill who lived with her and answered the door.  I managed to talk my way into the house by telling the old woman that I got credit for every demonstration I gave and I would not even ask her to buy the machine.  She told me she had a good Electrolux but "if it will help you, I'll let you show it to me."  I also asked, since it was getting dark, if she minded if the two girls came in to watch the demonstration.  She said yes and the girls came in and sat on the couch.  I did my usual physical demonstration and every time I took a test cloth full of dirt out of the vacuum cleaner instead of asking the old woman a selling question I would hold the test cloth close to her face, smile, and ask, "Did you know I was coming?  Did you leave that in there on purpose?"  Finally, after I had cleaned a section of her son's old cotton mattress on his bed in the room adjoining the living room, I asked the old woman again, "Did you know I was coming?  Did you leave that in there on purpose?"  By this time, the two girls who had always seen me work in my usual manner must have thought I had lost my mind.  But the old woman looked at the test cloth full of dirt and asked, "How much is that thing?"  I stepped between the old woman and the machine and looked as if I would not sell it to her unless she held a gun on me and said, "Now, did I ask you to buy that?"  She said, "No, but I want it.  How much is it?"  I told her $649.95 plus tax and she went to get her check book.  I remembered that I had an identical machine in the car which I had won in a contest and was waiting for a cash sale since I couldn't write it up on credit.  I asked if she would mind to switch and buy mine and she agreed and wrote the check out to me for nearly $675.00 which was an awful lot of money in the 1980's.  I folded the check and put it in my shirt pocket and began packing up the demonstrator.  Suddenly, the son walked over to Damita and put his hand on her elbow and said, "Do you know when he knocked on that door I was getting ready to run him off?  I thought sure he was one of them Jehovah's Witnesses."  I nearly gasped and instinctively put my hand over the check in my shirt pocket.  I was certain Damita would tell him the truth about her religion. If she had told him, I would not have said a word against.  While I might not agree with her religion, the constitution gives everyone the right to practice any religion they choose. But instead of telling him, she looked him square in the eye, smiled, and said, "Oh, really?"  And that was all she said until we were in the car on our way back to Logan.  We laughed for fifty miles and to this day, if they are still alive, those two people have no idea that Damita was a devout Jehovah's Witness. 

I had never used that particular technique for selling before and I never did again.  But a few days later, Damita tried it and I will never forget it.  She got in a house that was well into six figures owned by a very well dressed white woman who seemed to have a high opinion of herself and her circumstances.  Damita started the demonstration and when she took the first test cloth full of dirt out of the machine, she held it in front of the woman's nose and said, "Did you know I was coming?  Did you leave that in there on purpose?"  Even before I saw the woman's expression change, I knew it had been a mistake.  It instantly became a situation of comparative classes and races in the woman's mind.  She turned cold as ice and Damita lost the sale.  She realized her mistake about two seconds after I did.  In about fifteen minutes, it was clear there was no sale in the house and we left.  As we were driving away, Damita said, "Why on earth did I think that would work in that house with that woman?"  I couldn't have agreed with her more. 

We worked together for nearly a year and I was always proud to work with Damita wherever we went.  We were a wonderful hard and soft selling team.  We trusted each other and knew each other's style and often knew what the other would say before we said it.  She was the best sales trainee I ever trained.  I have no idea what ever happened to her.  But I think of her often. 

Once I was training a young man about twenty in Pike County, Kentucky, up near Phelps and Freeburn.  I got in a house and actually sold a triple for cash, two vacuum cleaners and a shampooer.  The deal was somewhere in the neighborhood of $1,500.00 and my commission was over $300.00.  As a part of the deal, I did what was called a T-Trade.  In that transaction, instead of giving a cash off trade in, you gave the client a hand held electric dust broom which cost the salesman nothing in commission as a cash trade in would have.  You entered the price of the dust broom, $89.95, on the sales total and subtracted $89,95 in the trade in line.  As I was explaining how the deal worked to the customer, the boy I was training looked at me and said, "Why you ain't nothing but an old con artist."  I made some joke and got through the rest of the contract.  But when we were safely in the car and on the way out of Freeburn, I told him that if he ever called me a con artist in public again he would be walking back to Logan. 

As I said in the beginning of this post, con artists, cheats, chiselers, and criminals have done a great deal of damage to the reputations of thousands of honest salespeople.  Nearly all of the salesmen and sales women I worked with in Logan were scrupulously honest.  But that is not the case with the employees of many other direct selling companies and especially the vacuum cleaner companies other than Electrolux.  Most of the competition train their sales forces to set a fantastically high and fictitious price on the equipment when they go in the door.  They then drop a hundred dollars or so every hour or so, stay in the house until the customer either surrenders from exhaustion or throws them out, and they still sell the machine for much more than it is worth. This also allows those companies employees to give what appear to be outrageously high trade ins on sales.  Electrolux always set a firm price on each machine, placed strict limits on trade ins, and within that policy every customer got equal treatment.  I grew up in a home where my mother had an Electrolux Model LX on runners.  I have an Electrolux in my home today more than thirty years after I left the business.  They are consistently the best machine on the market and, in the days of direct sales, their sales force and sales policy was the best and most honest in the business. 

As I was growing up, I sold door to door in Knott County from the age of ten.  I sold a  variety of products including garden seed, Rosebud Salve, Cloverine Salve, Grit Newspaper, and graduated to vacuum cleaners as an adult.  I loved the business.  And if it was realistic in today's social climate, I would be willing to sell part time today.  I learned a great deal about human nature as a salesman which I have used as a horse farm foreman, a therapist, a staff trainer, and an educator.  But with the fear of terrorism, drug trafficking and related crime, and other 21st century social problems as well as the sales success of the Internet,  it is unrealistic and often dangerous to be a door to door salesman.  Most of the companies have gone out of the business.  Most of the old salesmen and saleswomen are dead.  But they should be remembered and the good ones should be revered. 


Grit Salesman's Bag

I have told very few of my own selling stories so far and concentrated on those of the other sales people I knew.  But now I will tell a few of my own favorites from my career.  One of the first creative closes I ever did involved a Grit Newspaper I earned a nickle for selling when I was about ten.  I always stopped at the Kentucky, West Virginia Gas Pumping Station on Beaver and tried to sell a Grit to the crew in their day room and office.   I went in there one day and one of the men told me he couldn't read.  I knew him and knew better.  So I asked, "Well, can you smell?"  He said, "Yes, I can smell.  But what's that got to do with it?"  I replied, "Well, this paper is all b......t anyway. If you can smell, you'll be all right."  I got the sale and a good laugh. 


Photo Of Garden Seed Packages


One of the strangest experiences I ever had involved a woman in Boone County West Virginia who, I know now, was mentally ill.  She let me in the house but I could see rapidly that she was "not quite right" so I did not bring in my demonstrator.  She told me her husband, Little Willie, was dead.  Then she led me to the bedroom door and pointed to a life sized, inflatable male doll dressed in bib overalls, a flannel shirt, and a hat.  She said, "That's Little Willie's clothes.  I lay there at night and look at that and I feel good.  Little Willie used to call me his pussy cat."  Needless to say, I beat a hasty retreat out of the house. 

Another time, in Lincoln County West Virginia, I had a woman about 65 just blatantly proposition me.  I was a little past 35 at the time.  She said, "I like to go to Huntington on the weekends.  I draw a good check.  I need a good man with a good car to take me to Huntington, go out to eat, and have a good time.  I'll pay for everything."  I did not take her up on the deal.  On another occasion near the Boone and Logan County line, I ran into an old woman about the same age who was not so blatant but kept calling me back for useless service calls.  I finally got the point and quit taking the calls. 

Once between Man and Logan, I ran into every salesman's nightmare, a filthy house and a risque woman.  She invited me in and asked to see one of the old, heavy duty Electrolux upright vacuum cleaners.  She had me put the hose attachment on and after testing the suction, said, "Boy, I bet that would put a hickey on you."  I managed to escape and, as I recall, the house had been so dirty I had to clean the entire machine before I could demonstrate with it again.  I even went back home and changed my clothes and showered because I could not get the smell out of my nostrils. 

But, thank God, not all of the forward women were dirty, old, or ugly. I was single at the time and actually formed relationships with two different women I met while selling.  One I lived with for nearly three years  But, I also learned to see the advances coming fairly well in advance and developed ways to handle them without losing the sale if one was actually there.  Most of the women who wanted something more never wanted to buy a machine anyway. 

It was also a part of your job at Electrolux to collect on the credit accounts you sold and to do repossessions if need be.  Sales managers were ultimately responsible for the overall collection percentage and would coerce salesmen to collect and do repos on accounts where the salesman who sold the machine was no longer employed.  The first time I ever did a repo, Ed Compton asked me to repo a machine in a coal camp on Pond Creek in Pike County Kentucky.  I hunted for the man whose name was on the contract and had trouble finding him.  Finally, I saw a deputy sheriff's car in front of a trailer and knocked on the door to ask if the deputy knew the man.  He said, "That's me."  I will never forget it.  I told him why I was there and we eventually worked out the problem.  It turned out that the deputy was married to the ex-wife of a former Electrolux salesman who had earlier owed her a sizable sum of child support.  He had told her he would give her a vacuum cleaner if she would drop the demand for back support funds.  He had somehow gotten the deputy's personal data, filled out a contract, forged the name, and not paid for the machine which led to the repo.  It was an  interesting first repo experience.  In today's world, he would be prosecuted for identity theft.  But the laws regarding identity theft did not exist at that time and nothing happened to the former salesman. 

I also used to do a lot of what is called "selling on assumption".  There are certain questions and phrases which, while being as direct as "how much" or "write me up", still clearly imply ownership in the customer's mind.  When you hear a phrase like that, you reach for the contract book and start writing it up until they stop you.  I was in a home in Mitchell Heights, West Virginia, and the woman asked every buying question in the book and I wrote up the contract as we went.  But she would not sign it and eventually I had to leave.  About a week later, she called the office and told the receptionist to "send a salesman up to my house but don't send that skinny fellow with glasses...he wrote up a contract before I told him I wanted to buy it".  I lost that sale.  But if I had to give back all the money I made by selling on assumption, I would still be in the hole. 

I spent about five years selling for Electrolux until the coal business bottomed out in the late 1980's.  I enjoyed nearly every minute of it.   I learned a great deal about people and made some very good friends and decent money most of the time.  I loved direct sales.  The old time direct salesmen and saleswomen were fun to be around.  Those were better times for most of the country and  it would not be all bad if we could go back there again.  But Thomas Wolfe said "you can't go home again" and he was right. 

Friday, June 17, 2011

Appalachian Values As Discussed By Loyal Jones

Appalachian Values And Loyal Jones

Retired Berea College Professor Loyal Jones has had a lasting impact on public perceptions of Appalachian people with his book "Appalachian Values".  It is the first book I recommend to people who know little or nothing about Appalachians and express a desire to learn about us.  I believe it is the first book anyone should read who wants to know the truth about Appalachia and Appalachians.  It has done more to dispell the negative stereotypes of Appalachians than any other piece of written material and has been the basis of some of my own academic writing as well as the writing of hundreds of other authors both unknown and well known.  The links at the bottom of this blog will take the reader to two articles which I published with co-author Dr. Heather Ambrose, Ph. D., during the time I was working on my masters degree at Lindsey Wilson College.  We delivered one of those articles, "Culturally Appropriate Supervision of Counselors In Appalachia" at the 2005 National Conferece of The American Counseling Association and it was included in the book, "Vistas 2005: Compelling Perspectives On Counseling".  I have only spoken to Loyal Jones on one or two occasions and cannot say that  we are friends.  But I owe a debt of gratitude to Loyal Jones and so does every other native Appalachian who fights to diminish and dispell the stereotypes which persist today. 

Loyal Jones Photo By Candice M. Hicks



Jones wrote the book, which was originally an article in a Texas magazine published by the Texas Tech Press,  in response to the debilitating portrayal of Appalachian people by Jack Weller in his best seller "Yesterday's People".  Weller's book is the last or next to last book you should ever read about Appalachia. (The last book you should read is "Night Comes To The Cumberlands" by Harry M. Caudill.)   Weller was an outsider, a Presbyterian minister, and had come to the Eastern Kentucky area to preach and do community organizing.  Like many, if not most, of the missionaries who came and still come to Appalachia, Weller knew little of the people he wrote so devastatingly about.  Weller also failed to learn much while he was here. Jones is a native Appalachian who has spent his life in Appalachia writing about his own kind and working to lift the Appalachian people up and to fight the stereotypes.  Some other Appalachian writers of note have taken issue with Jones' work including Bob Snyder, a close friend and mentor of mine.  However, I have been greatly influenced by both and believe both are correct in major areas of their work.  Their disagreement was between them and should not influence any reader to view either of them negatively. 

Roger D. Hicks & Loyal Jones Photo By Candice M. Hicks

"Appalachian Values" was co-authored with Berea photographer Warren Brunner who actually was not an Appalachian.  His photos illustrate the work and actually take up more pages than the text. But, to my knowledge, Brunner did none of the writing and his photography is stupendous. The book is often mistaken for a coffee table picture book which is a major disservice to both the book and the people it depicts.  It is a masterful work of major cultural and political importance and is so deceptive in its simplicity that it is frequently ignored or avoided by academics.  It falls into a group of great little books like "The Last Lecture" by Randy Pausch and "Night" by Elie Wiesel.  These books are so small that they tend to be misleading to the average reader.  All write about groups of people who are unique and prone to be ignored, misinterpreted, pilloried, and even massacred. All three contain truths which are far more important than  the miniscule package in which they are contained. 


Jones discussed ten core values of Appalachians: Love of Place; Independence, Self Reliance, and Pride; Neighborliness; Familism; Humility and Modesty; Sense of Beauty;  Patriotism; Religion; Personalism; and, Sense of Humor. Jones has discussed these values in more depth in his other work, especially the book, "Faith and Meaning In The Southern Uplands".  Although that work is primarily about religion, it also serves to expand some of Jones' thinking on the other values. Jones may be best known for his work on Appalachian Humor, including several joke books with Billy Ed Wheeler.  Jones has also been a well known dinner circuit speaker because of his humor.  But he is first and foremost an Appalachian academic and writer. 

Later, as time allows, I will expand or expound, in ten individual postings on this blog, on my own perception of these core cultural vaules.  But, at this point, the most important sentences any reader should remember from the book are these:

"All work in Appalachia must be based on the genuine needs as expressed by mountain people themselves.  Whatever work is done must be done with the recognition that Appalachian culture is real and functioning." Loyal Jones, "Appalachian Values" p. 10.

What this boils down to in layman's terms is that the missionaries have never saved us and they never will.  They will persist in coming.  We Appalachians must persist in being ourselves and resisting the efforts at forced assimilation, both blatant and subtle.  I will also, as time permits, write a major posting on cultural assimilation and ways Appalachian people can best resist it and work to preserve Appalachian Culture.

 Go to this link to read updated reflections from both Loyal Jones and I  about his book "Appalachian Values" forty years after it was published.  Reflections On Appalachian Values by Loyal Jones

Wednesday, June 15, 2011

Recipes Wanted Which Use Sorghum Molasses

I want to find recipes which use sorghum molasses in as many ways as possible.  I am particularly interested in seeing recipes which use sorghum in entrees as opposed to desserts.  I am still interested in desserts but I am looking for more ways to use sorghum molasses outside the mainstream. E-mail them to me at hicksroger_@hotmail.com

You will have my undying gratitude. And every mule that ever turned a sorghum press will thank you too!!!

A Fine Team of Chestnut Mules

Pipestem Falls, Route 20, Pipestem, W V--My Favorite Places In Appalachia

Between Pipestem and Hinton, West Virginia, just off West Virginia Route 20 is a beautiful little waterfall only about 30 feet high.  But it has always been one of my favorite places in the entire state of West Virginia and Appalachia.  You can park near the highway and walk a short distance to the top of waterfall which is on  Pipestem Creek, not far from the state park of the same name, which is just a bit too large to jump over.  But the water spreads and drops over a ledge and is almost loud enough to drown out the passing traffic which you cannot see if you position yourself just right.  You can also usually manage to step out on rocks into the middle of the stream at the head of the fall. Just be careful.  In the 1970's, when I was spending a lot of time at the Appalachian South Folklife Center nearby, I would stop as often as possible to spend a few minutes at the waterfall.  I have also often stopped there since then when I am in the Summers County area. 


This waterfall is small but mystical in the way it can bring quite, peace of mind, and relaxation over you in even a short visit.  It is too close to the highway; or, rather, the highway was placed too close to the waterfall.  But that is its one shortcoming.  If you are driving from Hinton to Pipestem, take a few minutes, relax, catch your breath, and enjoy one of the most beautiful little waterfalls in Appalachia.  You can also pick up some of the litter which usually is there in small amounts despite the vast amount of education which has been done about littering lately.  It is a great place to visit for a few minutes.



Tuesday, June 7, 2011

A Visit To Kendallville, Indiana To Visit Displaced Appalachian Relatives

My wife, Candice, and I have just returned from a long weekend of visiting some of my urban Appalachian relatives in Kendallville, Indiana.  Specifically, we went to visit my 96 year old half sister, Lucy Hicks Moore, who lives with her daughter and son-in-law, Ollie and Jeannie Shepherd.  Lucy is recuperating from her second broken hip in the past several years. That, in and of itself, is amazing in a person of such advanced age.  She is back home, not walking, but doing some physical therapy, managing to crack a few jokes, and complaining about not being able to do any work.  And for those of you who ask what work  can a woman that age do, she spent much of last winter tacking about a dozen homemade quilts to give to various members of her family. She didn't sew the quilts.  Jeannie did the sewing and Lucy put the string tacking in all of them.  She also did a few small lap quilts for what she referred to as "the old people in the nursing home". 

While I was there, I also got to see my niece, Doris "Sissie" Hicks Lawson, from Sturgis, Michigan, who gave me a copy of the 2010 Minutes of the Northern New Salem Association of Old Regular Baptists.  I was particularly glad to see this copy since it contains one of the finest comments about the influence of Appalachian culture on the industrial north and one particular individual that I have ever seen.  In the obituary of Doy Riffle, the author, whose name I cannot determine, makes the following disclosure about his personal response to Appalachian culture:

I came here from Rhode Island 27 years ago and drove the road outside this very church on my first trip to Ohio as I started the courtship of my wife, one of Uncle Doy's nieces Samantha.  I walked into a new relationship, a new family, very different people, and a very new culture to me...And a whole new life that over the years has continued to broaden my understanding of people, family relationships, and love.  Sam and I married 25 years ago this July 28th in this very church and I married not only the love of my life but into a family, history and culture that I now treasure as my very own. (Obituary of Doy Riffel-Author Unknown--Minutes of the Fifty-Third Session of the Northern New Salem Association of Old Regular Baptist of Jesus Christ--2010)
I have noticed for many years the influences Appalachian culture has had on individuals, family, communities, and institutions in the industrial north in the geographic area of the Appalachian migration which followed World War II.  Obviously, the best literary depiction of this phenomenon is "The Dollmaker" by Harriette Arnow.  But others have written about it and continue to do so.  Loyal Jones makes brief mention of it in his classic work, "Appalachian Values".  He speaks of how northern plant managers struggled to deal with the close knit nature of Appalachian families at times when plant workers would take time off to come back home for the funerals of relatives other than first level kin. 



Photo of Highway Signs Pointed North Out of Appalachia

In the area of Ohio, Indiana, Michigan, and Illinois, the Northern New Salem Association has more than 20 churches and about 550 members.  They also have one church each in northern Kentucky and Florida. Additionally, a few of the churches in the New Salem Association also are in northern states.  As with any other area in which the Old Regular Baptists practice, the circle of cultural and religious influence is much wider than the reported membership numbers.  Most members do not join the church until they are at least middle aged and in most Old Regular Baptist families one person might be a baptized member of the church while several more attend services on at least an irregular basis without ever being baptized or joining the church.  This leads to a significant expansion of the area of cultural and religious influence.  It is also worthy of note that it was communion weekend at the Little Flossie Church of the Old Regular Baptists that weekend.  This was the reason my niece had driven from Sturgis to Kendallville.  I did not attend church services that weekend and was unaware that it was communion at the church which was actually co-founded by and named for another of my half-sisters, Flossie Hicks Wicker, who passed away about forty years ago.  The experience of attending communion services in an Old Regular Baptist Church is well worth the time for anyone who is interested in Appalachian culture and religion. The Old Regular Baptists practice closed communion, meaning the actual communion event is open only to baptized members of the church.  But anyone is always welcome at an Old Regular Baptist service.  I would recommend that attendees who have never been in an Old Regular Baptist church dress conservatively with women wearing dresses and men in shirts with sleeves although they don't have to be long sleeves. The communion service will include the distribution of the bread and non-alcoholic grape juice since Old Regular Baptists never consume alcohol.  It will also include foot washing which rarely occurs in churches today.  Male members wash the feet of other male members and female members wash the feet of other female members.  Everyone whom I have heard talk of participating in foot washing describes it as a humbling experience. Its purpose is generally conceded to be an attempt to teach humility and to bring the believers closer to understanding the state of mind of Jesus and the apostles just prior to the betrayal and crucifixion of Jesus Christ.  Even for an observer, the practice of foot washing is a moving experience.

The last time I actually attended an Old Regular Baptist service was at Little Bethlehem Church on Carr Creek in Knott County about three years ago.  I was doing research for a staff training I was scheduled to provide for a human services organization in Marietta, Ohio, and Rev. Bob Amburgey was the moderator of that church  at the time.  He graciously invited me to come to church on the evening they were baking the bread for their communion service the next day and also loaned me a large collection of Minutes from several different Regular Baptist Associations.  The service was brief but very moving and included the blessing of the ingredients to make the bread. That kind of welcoming kindness is what I expect when I go to an Old Regular Baptist Church. I wish I had known in advance it was communion at the Little Flossie while I was in Kendallville.  For those of you who know nothing about the Old Regular Baptists, Howard Dorgan wrote a very good book about them called "The Old Regular Baptists of Central Appalachia: Brothers And Sisters In Hope".  He also wrote about them in another book called "Giving Glory To God In Appalachia: Worship Practices Of Six Baptist Subdenominations". Any of his books on Appalachian Religion are well worth reading. 

There are also churches in several other primarily Appalachian denominations such as the United Baptists, Primitive Baptists, and other less prominent denominations in the industrial north. I know of at least three serpent handling congregations in the Fort Wayne, Indiana, area which were founded and are now primarily attended by members of the displaced Appalachian community.  At least one of the founders of the largest of those churches was also a significant political force in the Fort Wayne area for many years.  He owned several businesses in the city and often acted as a negotiator or go between in interactions between Appalachians and city hall.  This type of influence in the community as a whole is exercised on a regular basis throughout the industrial north.  Very rarely today, do displaced Appalachians take the quiet, shadowed existence characterized by Gertie Nevels in "The Dollmaker". 

Photo of Old Regular Baptist Church Sign In Sturgis, Michigan


On a regular basis when I visit native Appalachians in the industrial north, I see them practicing beliefs, folkways, and cultural traditions which sprang up in the hills and valleys of Kentucky, West Virginia, Virginia, Tennessee, and the Carolinas.  I know hundreds of displaced Appalachians who tend a garden every year even if it is a corner of a small yard in the middle of a city. Or it might be one stand of bees on top of a garage. They hunt, fish, can, freeze, and dry their catches.  They make and sell quilts, homemade chairs, honey, sorghum, and dozens of other products whose roots are in Appalachia. They often keep bees and raise their own pork and beef.  They practice self sufficiency to a degree that is uncommon in the dominant industrial culture. Very few minority cultures manage to resist total assimilation when they are exposed for decades to a dominant local culture. In general, minority cultures might manage to hang on to a few key elements of their cultural life but assimilate to a degree that individuals are nearly impossible to differentiate from citizens of the dominant culture.  But in many of the factory towns of the north, the Appalachian culture has thriven and nearly become dominant. 

A few years ago, I was in Kendallville for the funeral of my sister-in-law, Hattie Hicks, and stopped in the South Side Market for a Coke and a snack.  I still had my suit on from the church service and the clerk, with a pronounced local, northern Indiana accent said, "I bet you just came from Hattie's funeral."  Even though her ancestry for several generations was rooted in Indiana, she had been influenced enough by Appalachian culture that she paid attention to her Appalachian neighbors and knew who was being buried that day.  Appalachian accents are accepted in much of the north and many Appalachians refuse to lose theirs.  More noteworthy is the fact that they do not seem to face a great deal of pressure to conform and alter their accent.  Churches spring up and survive of the same denominations and beliefs that stand in Appalachia.  Funeral directors have made adjustments to adhere to idiosyncrasies of Appalachian burial practices.  Foods, folkways, folk songs, bluegrass music, Southern Gospel, gravelling for catfish, and dozens of other primarily Appalachian practices survive in the towns where Appalachians work. 

Ollie Shepherd, his daughter Tiffany, two of her friends, and me all went on Saturday morning to the Wolf Swap Meet just north of Albion, Indiana.  I saw people from all over Appalachia mixed in with the local Amish population.  They were trading knives, hunting dogs, produce, and livestock in a manner very similar to that at the Paintsville Livestock Market or the Bull Creek Flea Market. I was wearing a University of Kentucky basketball shirt and a vendor commented that if  "he is a Kentucky fan he must be all right." It turned out he was from Morehead, Kentucky.  I noticed that for many of the vendors and customers it was a time to socialize and catch up on recent events.  People interacted to a degree that is generally uncommon in the north.  I felt at home and, I am sure, so did most of them.  These kinds of events happen on nearly a daily basis in towns all over the Midwest and industrial north wherever Appalachians have congregated.  It was also common in the early days of the Great Migration for natives of a particular area to induce their relatives and friends to move to the same town and, often, to work in the same factory.  Many small towns in the industrial north have Appalachian populations which are primarily rooted in one county or small geographic area in Appalachia. 

Tuesday, May 31, 2011

The Family Cemetery And Burial Practices In Appalachia

The Family Cemetery
The family cemetery in Appalachia has played an important role in social life, local history, and culture since Daniel Boone led the earliest settlers through the Cumberland Gap.  The early settlers were coming into a country in which there were no roads, no white or European presence, and no prior history by their own kind of people.  It was a rugged and dangerous environment.  In a very short time, accidents, child birth, Indian warfare, and disease began to take their toll.  Customs and sanitary norms of the time required that the dead be buried immediately.  A certain percentage of those deaths took place even before the settlers were near an area where they intended to stay long term.  In those cases, the dead were simply buried in the next available bit of ground where it was soft enough to dig. Many of those trail side graves have been lost for centuries. At times of Indian warfare, it was also not unknown for the settlers to make attempts to conceal the graves of their dead.  They generally would have done this for two reasons: 1) to conceal losses of able bodied fighters from the enemy; and, 2) due to generally unfounded fears of desecration of the graves.  But after settlers had found the piece of land they intended to call home, they buried their dead on their own land.  A small piece of land would be chosen at the time the need first arose.  The first grave would be dug and that spot would be designated the family cemetery for the Browns, or White's, or Hicks'. These first and most eventual graveyards in Appalachia were usually located on a piece of high ground, often with a good view of the surrounding area.  It was often a favorite spot of the head of the household. There was also a common belief that on resurrection morning the dead in Christ would arise with the first rays of the morning sun.  The higher elevations usually got morning sunshine earlier than low lying ground.  It was also common for graves to be placed with the face of the dead toward the sunrise.


Photo of A Family Graveyard

 My maternal grandfather, Woots Hicks, chose the site for one of the graveyards my relatives are buried in when a great-grandchild died of SIDS.  It was a high spot in his cow pasture overlooking the home and garden.  It was also a spot he often stopped to rest when he was working in the fields.  In time, a fence might be added.  Some form of marker was generally made for the graves in the early cemeteries, usually a local sandstone with rude carving.  Sometimes, the marker was a piece of wood with equally rude carving or wood burning with a hot poker.  And, with a certainty, more graves would be added to the location.  Even in the last few years, I have known of families who designated a piece of land near the house in Eastern Kentucky or Southern West Virginia as a graveyard.  I know of one near a small church in Western North Carolina.  I have seen them in Kentucky, West Virginia, North Carolina, Georgia, and Tennessee.  One of my favorites in West Virginia is the Hatfield Cemetery in Logan County which contains the graves of Devil Anse Hatfield and most of the other members of the family from the days of the Hatfied-McCoy feud. 

Woots Hicks Cemetery Photo By Roger D. Hicks


Decoration was not common on graves for many years after settlement began.  The earliest form of decoration was usually some form of flowering tree or plant. Red buds and dogwoods were common.  I have found mention in two different writers work of asparagus being used to mark and decorate graves.  Both Cratis Williams and Verna Mae Slone mention the use of what they say the locals called "spar grass" to decorate graves. I have never found asparagus on a cemetery.  But I have helped a cousin plant some on one which is located on a farm he owns in Lawrence County Kentucky since I learned of the practice.  Cratis Williams was writing primarily about Lawrence County.  Slone was writing about Knott County. The best book about Appalachian burial customs is "Death And Dying In Central Appalachia" by James K. Crissman.  He covers burial practices from settlement to modern times. He does an especially good job of documenting changes in trends and practices over time.  "Coal Camp Kids: Coming Up Hard And Making It" by Barbara Ford Ritch has a large chapter on burial practices with many good photos of graves, caskets, graveyards, and corpses. It is an oral history about the coal camps near where I was born around Wayland, Kentucky. The book has excellent recording of first person oral history and a fine collection of photos on many subjects which make up for what it lacks in expository writing. 

 The current practice of placing multitudinous plastic flowers on graves came about after the end of WW II.  It began initially with handmade flowers using wire and crepe paper.  My sister and I made some once to put on the grave of an elderly alcoholic neighbor who died without family in a house fire.  But today it is common to see relatives of the deceased spend large sums of money, which they often cannot afford, to put extravagant displays on graves.  They often seem to feel that the flowers at Memorial Day proves their continued love and devotion for the dead.  I was raised to believe and still practice the belief that a far more fitting memorial for the dead is the effort to live an exemplary and admirable life of which the deceased could be proud.  I also know of a few occasions in modern times where families have turned graves into veritable shrines to the deceased.  I recently observed a case where a family spent more than fifty thousand dollars for marble and a building to cover the grave of a young person killed in a car wreck.  I have also seen one other incident in which a mother spent extravagantly to decorate and memorialize the grave of a son who committed suicide.  In both cases, the expenditure appears to be a manifestation of the inability to fully process grief upon the early death of a cherished child. 

 At some point, shortly after the original settlement, the use of grave houses became common.  A grave house is a simple wooden or stone roof placed over the grave to protect it from the elements and, in those earliest times, wild animals which might attempt to dig out the unembalmed body.  Grave houses are uncommon today.  I know of one site in Johnson County Kentucky right beside US 23 not far from the Lawrence County line where a grave house still exists. A modern variation of the grave house is the use of a large slab of granite or marble to cover the entire grave.  These are usually heavily engraved. It is also becoming more common today for grave markers to be decorated with laser generated images of the deceased.  The most memorable use of a marble grave cover I have ever seen was in a small cemetery in West Central Georgia not far from Holy Trinity, Alabama.  It was the grave of a young boy who had died in a car wreck and was very extravagantly carved prior to the days of laser images. It also fits my earlier statement about such practices often being a response to the early death of a cherished child.  One cemetery near where I grew up in Knott County Kentucky has, perhaps, its earliest grave simply outlined with hand cut sandstones about eight inches square and two or three feet long marking the entire outline of the grave.  No one I know in that community knows who the occupant of the grave is.  But that grave has been protected for the entire time it has been there and a cemetery with more than a hundred graves has sprung up around it.  That particular cemetery is more a community cemetery than a family location.  In fact, members of a dozen or more unrelated families, including a few of my own relatives, are buried in that cemetery.

Appalachian Grave House Photographer Unknown



That cemetery also, for many years had a covered but open sided shelter with a pulpit and seating for church services which usually occur on Memorial Day or, as it colloquially known, Decoration Day. At times in good weather, funerals might have been held in such a "stand" as they were known.  The Old Regular Baptist Church, The Primitive Baptist Church, and a few other regional denominations still adhere to the practice of Memorial Meetings.  This practice is an outgrowth of the circuit rider tradition which followed the early settlers. They are often accompanied by dinner on the grounds or in the home of a nearby member of a family represented in the cemetery.  In the 17th and 18th centuries, settlements were widely dispersed, communities were small at best, and ministers were few and far between.  It was common at that time for burials to take place as soon as possible with whomever was nearby in attendance.  Someone would say a few words, deliver a prayer, a song or two might be sung, and if anyone present was literate, a few Bible verses would be read.  Then at the next visit of the circuit riding preacher, a formal service would be held for anyone who had died and been buried since his last visit.  This circuit riding practice is also tied to the once monthly Saturday and Sunday meetings of the Old Regular Baptists and a few other denominations. 

The family cemetery is less common today but, as I noted earlier, new ones still periodically spring up.  At times, they come to negatively effect the price of land when it becomes necessary for a family to sell.  I also know of at least one case in Menifee County Kentucky where new land owners have made attempts to keep relatives of people buried in a family cemetery from visiting the graves.  But, in general, most new land owners have the common decency to act more mature and allow free passage to and from cemeteries.  Usually, graveyards are excepted out of deeds along with a right of way to the site.  I have also known of one recent case in Pike County Kentucky in which an old casket believed to be from the early twentieth century was found by a land owner dumped by party or parties unknown on his property.  The embalmed body of a woman was in the casket according to press reports.  Apparently, the casket had been removed from land by a landowner or mining company and dumped on the land of the man who discovered it. His land was described in press reports as a likely dumping site because of its proximity to a paved road and lack of close neighbors.  I have never seen a report that the deceased woman or the individuals who violated her original grave site and abused her corpse were ever identified or the site of her original grave ever found.  It is likely that a relatively new land owner simply decided they no longer wanted a grave on their land.  This is a rare occurrence anywhere in Appalachia although there have been numerous documented incidents in which strip mining enterprises simply bulldozed over existing and generally unused graveyards.  

Grave digging and burial practices have changed over the last half century. I was actually grown before I ever knew of anyone being paid to dig a grave and I was nearly that old before I knew of anyone paying for a burial site.  I was nearly forty before anyone in my family was ever cremated.  Up until about the 1980's in most of Appalachia it was the rule that friends and neighbors dug graves.  I remember one old man who lived not far from us who always farmed and logged and never held "a public job".  When anyone within walking distance of his house died, he would appear the next morning at the home carrying his tools and volunteer to  help dig the grave.  It was his chosen form of community service and he was dedicated to it until he was too frail to carry his tools.  I feel safe to say that he alone helped dig several hundred graves in his lifetime.  He was also a perfectionist about grave digging and felt all four walls of the grave should be smooth, level, and unblemished.  He, and most of the people I grew up around, felt that digging the grave was the last act of respect you could show the dead and they deserved to get the best. I have seen him actually use clay or mud to fill in a small hole in the side of a grave where a stone came out and left an imperfection.  When my half-brother, Curtis  Hicks, was buried several years ago in Kendallville, Indiana, I thought of that old man at my brother's grave site.  The grave, in a public commercial cemetery, had been dug with a backhoe and one side had fallen in leaving, perhaps, the worst looking grave I have ever seen.

 It was common for several men and boys to dig graves in Appalachia taking turns and working for brief spells.  The family of the dead would supply drinking water, soft drinks, and lunch.  That was all anyone expected or got for digging a grave.  At the time of the actual burial, friends and family members would fill in the grave after the casket was lowered into the ground.  I was also nearly grown before I saw funeral home staff allowed to fill in a grave.  Today, almost no one digs or fills in a grave for a friend or a family member except in rare occasions where a family cannot afford the charge for grave digging.  During my childhood, it was still common for many people to be buried in simple pine coffins without a burial vault.  Such graves were dug in a unique manner due to the fact that the cheap wooden coffins were prone to collapse quickly after burial leaving a grave with a sunken surface of several inches to as much as two feet at times.  Such graves were dug wider in the top half and more narrow at the bottom.  An earthen vault was constructed in this manner which had edges that were offset from the upper opening by about four to six inches on all four sides.  After the casket was lowered into the grave, precut rough oak lumber of exactly the width of the grave was laid over the casket on the offset to protect the casket and decrease the propensity for sinking.  It was also common for most cemeteries of any size to have a pile of unused dirt just outside the fence for use in sunken graves. 

It was not uncommon for children in Appalachia to play on cemeteries; and, in those days, vandalism was not common as it is today.  Once several of us were playing hide and seek on a local cemetery after dark and there was one grave which was sunken to a considerable depth.  As we went to hide, I happened to be looking directly at another boy who was slipping along behind tombstones looking for a hiding place.  Suddenly he dropped totally and instantaneously out of sight.  He had stepped into the sunken grave without seeing it.  The tombstone was between me and him so I had no idea what had happened. He and I both screamed and he clawed his way out of the grave and took off running toward the gate.  However, he never even opened the gate.  He jumped the fence and kept on running straight home.  None of us who were chasing him and yelling could get him to stop.  The game of hide and seek was broken up and, so far as I know, he never again went on a cemetery after dark. 

Many of the old family cemeteries in Appalachia have fallen into disrepair and are rarely mowed these days except just prior to Memorial Day.  Often family farms have been sold off or fallen into neglect after ownership has been split between dozens of heirs without division of the whole.  Also, with the construction of flood control lakes such as Dewey Lake in Kentucky, Blue Stone in West Virginia and dozens of others in Appalachia, many of the old cemetery sites were flooded.  But federal policy required that all graves due to be flooded were to be moved at government expense.  Every flood control lake built has a government funded cemetery somewhere just outside the area of flooding.  Contactors and crews would be hired to move the cemeteries and graves from a dozen or more might be put in one large public location.  Graves from the same cemetery were usually put in close proximity and names of the original cemeteries are sometimes on stone markers near their particular graves.  These cemeteries usually are operated on an ongoing basis by a board of directors and have added space for continued sales of plots.

Today, family cemeteries are growing less common and some day may well cease to exist except as unused plots with a few old graves.  But their place in the history of Appalachia has been important and every effort needs to be made to respect and protect them.  A few people and agencies from state to state have done work recently to locate the cemeteries and use to GPS technology to document them.  In a few cases, individual marked graves are also documented. 

Addendum March 28, 2017
Recently, I did a Google search of myself as I frequently do, and as I believe everyone should do, to keep track of my publications and citations of my writing and also to become aware of any potential misuse of my online presence.  I found that this blog post has been quoted and appropriately cited in a masters dissertation by Marjorie Fey Farris in pursuit of a masters degree in history at Eastern Kentucky University which was completed and published online in 2015.  The title of the dissertation is "The Persistence of Place in Appalachia: The Phenomena of Post-Death Migration, 1930-1970".  The dissertation addresses the practice of Urban Appalachians of returning deceased family members to the region for burial in Appalachian ground.  I had discussed this phenomena superficially in this post and other writings about Appalachian burial practices but had never seen it discussed at length before.  It is an interesting practice, still common today throughout Appalachia, and unlikely to cease in the immediately foreseeable future.  If you are interested in Appalachian burial customs, the dissertation is worth the time to read.  I recommend it.