The author, James K. Crissman, did a well researched, scholarly job of discussing nearly every aspect of death and dying in the area of Central and Southern Appalachia in the slightly more than 200 pages of this book. His bibliography and notes are exemplary in both their volume and precision and he supplemented his writing with numerous photographs throughout the book. The one shortcoming of the photographs is that they are all in black and white. The book is comprised of an Introduction, ten chapters and a Summary. Chapter topics include Familism, Neighborliness, and the Death Watch; Preparation of the Body; Burial Receptacles and Grave Digging; The Wake; The Funeral Service; Burial Customs; Grave Markers and Other Forms of Memorialization; Funeralizing and Memorial Traditions; Dying, Death, and Central Appalachian Music; and Mining Disasters and Death. All of these chapter topics are important and many aspects of all of them have changed in some ways over the course of the nearly thirty years since this book was published.
If we look briefly at some few aspects of most of these chapters we can get some general idea of how these aspects of death and dying in Appalachia have changed. Firstly, let's look at the top of Familism which is a word many readers may not fully understand. Familism is a concept from sociology which amounts to somewhat of a double edged sword for the people who practice it in their lives. But it is less widespread in Appalachia today than it might have been thirty to fifty to one hundred years ago. Familism occurs when members of a family, especially an extended family, have deep ties to the family and to each other. Familism is a bit of a double edged sword. It means that a second cousin might take a day off work to drive his cousin to a doctor's appointment or to help her move. It also means that family members and families can become negatively enmeshed to such a degree that fights can occur over very minor points and, yet, two family members who have been in disagreement for months will spring to the defense of each other if an outsider comes in conflict with one of them. Neighborliness is now less likely to result in extensive assistance being provided by neighbors in the event of a death than happened in the past. Today, death watches in Appalachia usually involve only family members or close friends with an occasional involvement by a church member or co-worker. In the past, it would not have been uncommon for neighbors to visit at least once daily to offer sympathy and assistance as a person was approaching death. Preparation of the body for burial in Appalachia in this day and age is almost always performed by undertakers, embalmers, and their assistants in a funeral home. Even in my childhood, it was much more common for female family members, close neighbors, or "granny women" to come to the home of the deceased and wash and dress a dead person for burial. I am nearly seventy years old and I can only remember one person in Appalachia who was buried unembalmed in a shroud. But I do know of several who have been buried, at their request, unembalmed and dressed in everyday clothes instead of the now common fancy burial dresses and suits. But I do remember the Old Regular Baptist preacher Clabe Mosley who was buried in a homemade casket which he bought, paid for, and tested for fit almost a quarter of a century before his death at 102. Clabe was also buried under a concrete homemade tombstone which one of his sons constructed to Clabe's specifications. I also remember seeing graves dug for the old, cheap, wooden caskets which were buried without a vault. In those situations, the grave was dug in two different widths, a close fit for the casket in the bottom two feet of the grave, then the top three or so feet was dug with a step outward on all four sides of about six inches so that boards of rough, hardwood lumber could be laid over the casket to help retard the eventual rotting of the casket and body along with subsequent sinking of the grave. Today, cremation is much more common in Central and Southern Appalachia than ever before. At the time Crissman wrote this book, almost no one in Appalachia was being cremated. When I was young, almost no one was ever buried in a grave which anyone had been paid to dig and graves were always dug by hand. Now, almost all graves in Appalachia are dug by a backhoe and it is truly rare to see neighbors, family, or friends perform the grave digging service as a sign of respect for the dead.
Today, nearly all funerals in Appalachia are held in a funeral home and it is incredibly rare to see a home based funeral where the body is brought home and a visitation and church service is held nightly for up to three days which is how most of my family members were funeralized until about 1980. Grave markers have changed drastically in my lifetime. When I was young, it was possible to still see a few people who were buried with only a sandstone or rough lumber marker and that changed in my childhood to markers being primarily either professional granite or marble tombstones with carving on them. Double tombstones for married couples and occasionally a parent and child were also the norm and that is still common. In my early years, nearly everyone was buried in a small, privately owned family cemetery. That is far less common today. The majority of people are now buried in commercial cemeteries although family cemeteries have not disappeared completely. Many, if not most, of the commercial cemeteries now require that markers be made of bronze and lie level with the surface of the ground so the entire cemetery can be mowed with a riding lawn mower or tractor without the operator or an additional laborer ever being required to move flowers and other decorations or stop and**** get off the mower. Most also have strict rules about how decorations such as flowers may be used on graves. Up until about twenty years ago, all tombstones were simply engraved with names and dates of birth and death along with one short phrase such as "Asleep In Jesus", "Gone Home", or the like. Today, it is common to see laser decorated tombstones with very complicated scenes which may be purely artistic in nature or copied digitally from a photograph.
Lastly, mine deaths and disasters are less common than they were in 1994 when Crissman wrote his chapter about them. They are not totally non-existent today and I cannot remember the last occasion when coal miners were permanently entombed in a mine due to the extreme danger of further deaths of recovery workers if attempts were made to remove dead bodies after an explosion. Crissman devoted an entire chapter in his excellent book to that subject and it deserved to be addressed at that time. Now, most attempts to address that topic have become historical in nature due to the steady lessening of mine deaths both due to mechanization and decreased underground mining.
James K. Crissman produced one of the best books in the entire field of Appalachian Studies with this book. It should always be included in any attempt to create a broad personal library of Appalachian books. The subject of death, dying, and burial practices in Appalachia should never be addressed without including a discussion of this book. It is masterpiece. If you haven't read it and consider yourself a student of life in Appalachia you should read it.
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